Breaking point…

There comes a point in everyone’s life where they can no longer be strong, or weak – it depends on the way you look at it i suppose…

For me that was tonight and i was both at the same time…

I no longer want to be strong for anyone else or be weak in myself, i just want to be and all i want to be is me. I am done trying: to fit the mold, to be accepted, to be what other people think i should be, to conforming to “the” rules. I am me and this is me and if you don’t accept this or approve of who i am then there is no space, for you, in my life.

Tonight i have realized that the only people i need in my life are the ones who accept me for who i am and what i stand for, and if those people are few and far between i would gladly take that over the forced interactions i have to deal with on a daily basis.

What matters in life are the people who would drop anything for you at the drop of a hat, not the ones that are only around when things are going well. If you don’t have these kinds of people in your life then you’re doing things wrong.

Life is not about who you’re with or who you know its about being yourself  and  who will be there in the end when all the rest doesn’t matter